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There's a chapter of "How To Win Friends And Influence People" that's been BANNED. You can't find it anywhere because Dale Carnegie's wife didn't want you to. T…
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The people who are close to you recieve your criticism because you want them to be a better version of themselves. It can be a kindness, rather than to leave them in ignorance that makes them unliked by others. Much of this comes in the delivery and packaging. Speak the truth, ie. You've got room to improve. But do it kindly. Not, wow, you messed that up.
Also don't over analyze everyone. The number 1 thing to improve a skill like talking to people is, practice, practice, practice.
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=131">2:11</a> make it stop
This is an awesome vid idea! My uncle gifted me this book on Christmas in my senior year of high school.
upstairs footsteps at <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=743">12:23</a> lol, so no, ur not insane
Cheesey cheesy
I'm actually using this stuff in my marriage unconsciously and I can only say it works
If we're struggling to pay bills yea I'm going to criticize my spouse if they don't want to do better for themselves
Speaking in public scares me. However I have received many compliments about how good I am at it. If you fear something but want to improve, do it. The improvements come by acting not hiding in fear.
It’s crazy to think Abraham Lincoln killed all those vampires and still couldn’t catch a break.
So happy about the success of your channel. I love the discussions. I like and save every video I watch! So you continue to grow, and share your thoughts!
It’s very ironic that the sex thing is so important 😢 I’m disabled so much I can’t and my fiancé has been so supportive that it’s been genuinely mind boggling and I’m so grateful for it. “We can never have sex again and I’ll still love you forever” 😭😭
As someone with autism who has trouble with socializing, much of this advice sounds like outright deception.<br><br>What is the morality in "tricking" people into liking you? <br><br>All I want to do now is be hyper-vigilant of any potential individuals who use these to tactics. They sound like disingenuous people whom I don't want to associate with.
They made me read that book in my required business seminar. It felt like a book about social engineering... Which is really to say, it felt like a book about how to manipulate people better.
I'm guessing that massively over-enunciating every consonant and sibilant is in there somewhere, huh, Casey? That pop-filter needs some serious help, it's just not up to the job. Maybe try a de-esser?
I did not realize that book were so popular I read it a while ago and it helped me
I find it annoying to have my name mentioned repeatedly. Maybe I am different from most people
Well this is gonna keep me up tonight..amazing 😭
If we all started to respect & love our friends the way we're supposed to and break the shallow "casual friend" concept (friendships were never supposed to be treated casually, we have acquaintanceships fo that), this capitalistic system would be another couple of steps closer to crumbling down.
Yay incel time<br>Woo hoo<br>Yay
If you needed a reason to never get married as a woman, this video is it…
Great video
The book of Anne Frank was fiction. Fixed it for you.
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=910">15:10</a> whaaaat?!
Sounds like the wife became a feminist after he died.
Lmaoo the manson drop. Your a funny ass dude bro
Dude. Im about to start watching mad men because of this lol
BRO BRO , HOLY MOLY FUCKING DOLY, BROOOOOOOO!!!!!, UR ON A GENERATIONAL RUN MAN, THANKKKKK YOUUUUUU!!!!!!!
Meanwhile those of us that live IRL and have thriving careers, families, lives and personalities encounter online folks cold-opening their new found "life skills" in the wild and it is so bizarre 😂
I am sharing this video with all my friends that struggle with making friends. I love the part on marriage. I adore your videos ❤
Traditional gender roles are not outdated. Modern views on gender are delusional.
lol some of that advice might get you arrested in Sweden. or people will work really hard to avoid you :D
Why do I do all these naturally 😅😂
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=1773">29:33</a> I had a boss like this. I would ask something simple and she would pause BUT she would have this blank stare like how a toddler holding a ball looks at you when you say, “you like basketball?”<br><br>We all thought she was slow. I still think she was but it kills me to think this is what she was attempting to do. 😂😂😂😂
This dude going to snap up his lower back always leaning in like that.
Eh, honestly, I just have my wife and focus on her. Friendships are far and away too fickle, and communities just aren't for me. It's like a switch flipped in my head a few years ago, but I just don't enjoy the process anymore.
I've found that sincerity is generally the surest method to weed out people you don't really want to know. If you genuinely listen, try to understand, and respond accordingly, you will be more likely to connect with those who deserve your attention.
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=2474">41:14</a> Asian Ariana Grande
Lol i thought you were like 13 or 14 or something
i really needed to see this casey, thank you so much ❤
Casey I love this channel and this video was honestly one of your best but genuinely how to maintain this upload schedule 😭😭😭
1 mil inbound
Anne Frank? Non-fiction? LOL
I wanna try these BUT they do feel <b>extremely</b> fake and performative to my autisticass, like these people have awful fake normie vibes ew
None of this works. Dont be naive.
Maybe I’m more socially adept than I thought because <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=168">2:48</a> when he said “when someone says your name you can tell they read the book.” <br>Dude… what? Maybe I just care and remember peoples names. I try to remember what people tell me too, but when I bring it up to them, they look at me weird and say “I didn’t tell you that.” <br>Bro, yes you did? I listened to you because I want to have a conversation with you, and I want you to feel like someone in your life actually listens to you, not because I’m obsessed, chill.
Legendary Dale Carnegie Apocrypha uncovered?!
Another thing I did as a stage hypnotist/mentalist was that I started with a little self deprecating humour. <br>Something like: "We play a little game for the contents of my wallet... which is errrm errrrmm... A rather disappoint 10 euros. Oy... I am basically a magician which is one step up from the lowest of the lowest of entertainers... Clowns!"<br>I'd also explain we all influence people and we all are influenced. It's a sign of being a functional human being. It takes away some inhibition especially when doing psychological entertainment like mentalism and stage hypnosis.
Bro wtf is this ?
this "using someone's name" doesn't work, at least in my language. i will use someone's name while i am talking about them or we're in a bigger group but when someone uses my name in 1:1 situations i feel very weird, like i am in trouble. Recently i noticed this practice in Space Maker videos as i just discovered them. This woman is using people's names constantly and to me it sounds like she's talking to little children trying to teach them what their name is. i don't know, for me it just sounds weird.
Listening to too many of thems.
My book has 6 parts though…
100k views but not enough likes!! Come on guys!!
@<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=1610">26:50</a> — That’s true. Dr. Robert Cialdini discusses this in his book *Influence*, and it’s something I’ve consciously done for years. For example, I might ask someone to pass me the creamer or sugar, even though I drink my coffee black.<br><br>Cialdini is one of the foremost researchers on influence and persuasion, and Influence is a great read. <br><br>One thing I also learned when I moved into more leadership roles, is that genuinely praising people in front of others—during a daily meeting, for example—can go a long way toward building trust, likability and rapport.<br>It also gives you more credibility when you later have to be firm and point out that something was done poorly. If people know that you recognize and appreciate good work, they’re generally more receptive to constructive criticism when something needs to be corrected.<br><br>And there’s another benefit: people higher up in the organization notice how you handle both praise and criticism. Good leaders need to demonstrate empathy while still holding people accountable. If you can consistently do both, you build trust, credibility, and the kind of leadership reputation that can open the door to greater responsibility and, eventually, promotion.
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=2025">33:45</a> How to be a therapist 101 😅
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=1760">29:20</a> ah, the Ole Elon Musk technique. Wait a couple seconds before answering. 😅
i used to have a friend i considered my bestie. the moment i stopped reaching out, our "friendship" d!ed. she never reached out. apparently that translated to me "refusing to talk" to her, and she went to my closer friend she - to her credit - introduced me to and demanded to know why they were still talking to me. this was a woman i befriended in middle school, i thought we were tight as thieves for the long run.
💅💅💅 as usual? 😮
bro it took me second to find this book and its two missing parts. Did you even look??
Don’t judge your loved one when you’re already tired is the same thing as don’t visit a store with an empty stomach.
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=2479">41:19</a> not taking advice from someone who missuses their seatbelt<br><br>also the one question i have to ask is: to what end? because all this sounds like they have an end in mind, and other people are just means. and i somehow dont like to think about my friends, and dearests as means to an end
I like the video except to the part it became a tiktok documentary with commentary over it, it did not feel that informative and just felt like it was there to fill up the time.<br>Like I rather would've liked some tiktok videos as just changing the topic like haha funny they keep asking questions & calling your name, but at that point you can just make a video about the rest of the book and or compare some other changes or give your own take or just cut it
i am wondering what non fiction is on plase 1. if that is the bible, the list is invalid.
Gaping holes, ARE TIGHT!
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=1">0:01</a> That was wrote by pen before it was invented
god there are so many layers of manipulation that some people use for this. i kinda started noticing awhile ago when people are using these as an ice breaker instead of genuine interactions. they arent bad even in the ice breaker context, but i can tell to a decent degree when there is interest in regards to the bullshit i talk about or not, even if they never say anything, but i also give easy answerable questions about topics on which way they would prefer to continue talking about it...which gives themself away despite the fact its a genuine question.
this channel is gold ❤
Oh my. It turns out the secret to making friends and keeping your partner happy is... being a kind person!? Gasp. Funny how that has remained a constant truth yet new generations keep struggling to learn kindness. It's my belief that "main character syndrome" will doom humanity.
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=584">9:44</a> I can very much relate to this I gotta friend who comments about my intrest and my hobbies like playing basketball and i sometimes avoid him and his calls because I find him immature and irritating sometimes
@caseysimpsonchannel, I don't recall disliking a single thing you've put out. A few I've sent to my wife to view. This one, I've stopped approximately halfway through because I'm confident we'll enjoy it more seeing it together, while we hold hands and, I'm sure, periodically exchange loving grins. Thankyou, sir. You're passionate, conscionable, intelligent and generous folks. God bless you, your supporters and the like minded. Thank you once again from us here in central Canada. Ttfn.
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=2586">43:06</a> this guy and the girl after him are the people i sus out immediately . You're getting a hard no every time , desperate ass
I saw many of your videos. This is easy one of my favorites. Why? You talk about things people often forget or don’t find interesting enough to talk about. <br>I’ll buy that book. Thank you for stimulating my brain cells!
Casey this video literally made me cry thank you sk much
hey casey, it’s aaliyah. i like the setup you use when filming, and the filmography like camera placement, pacing, cutaways. it’s a nice touch. what is your timezone dude? just curious if we’re in the same one but if you live in LA it’s a definite no. have had a wild 5th week at school with all 3 of my classes requiring an essay 😭 it’s going good tho. one is on Jaws, one is a misunderstood or uncommon definition, and the last is on Jan Steen and Norman Jensen paintings. if you read, what’s your favorite animal (NOT pet-wise)?
FFS just make your point in a thesis statement. Obvious manipulati9n of algorithm, and basically there is no there there. Thats why you cant say it upfront. It is nothing.
sigh... men and their need to fill gaping holes...
I am interested, but also have the alarming feeling you want to live in my nose or on my face. Maybe give us a foot or two more? If someone is this close and this intense in rl, it is definitely off putting to most people in your culture. So it has an adjacent unsettling effect on video, i cannot be the only one, i am just not that interesting or unusual.
Be myself > Having at least 1 "friend"<br>I'm not gonna pretend that I'm something that I'm not just to have friends.
lol Anne Frank's diary is non-fiction? hasn't it been already proven that other people added to it long after? and passed it off as her own words?
Bookmarks<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=580">9:40</a><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=611">10:11</a><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=704">11:44</a> this hurt bc it happens to me all the time<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=912">15:12</a> yay confidence<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=996">16:36</a> me<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=1120">18:40</a> same<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=1384">23:04</a><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=1650">27:30</a> genuine emoloyment advice<br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=2415">40:15</a>
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=505">8:25</a> weve been lied to our whole lives
oh wow i didn’t know that
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=1759">29:19</a> I naturally do all of these too, I also think I’m a psychopath 😅
new posters?
this is goated thank you casey!
Not for nothing but I am pretty sure that now is not the time to take advice from Ed Sheeran.
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=1620">27:00</a> eww bird hands
Thank you for the PDF👍
Happy too see one of my childhood actor has found something of purpose again in my live love the videos
The thing is..I didn't believe people who tell me that they were e thinking about me. I KNOW I'm usually not thought of. 😂 And if you were thinking about me for real, WHY? That makes me paranoid now.👀
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=2635">43:55</a> if she was a guy, she'd be crying and asking why her shit ain't working
I got this book from Amazon last year and I, unknowingly, got the unredacted version. I'm so sorry you guys had to make do with the other one.
How do you function if you don’t want friends and don’t genuinely value other people?
"There are no winners or losers in psychological warfare, but there are victims, and students" - REN - "Hi Ren"
Mr. Simpson,.. I don't agree with 2% of what you share during paid therapy (with algorithm) but using the term 'inordinate' ? are you some friggin reading prodigy? Impressed on many levels. Now get off my lawn
The most famous non-fiction book is The Bible.
I’m an older woman who you would call a boomer lol but I enjoy your humor and I learn from you and agree with much of what you say keep it up
I fall asleep to your voice. I need you to have Spotify so I don't keep getting woke up by commericals!! 😅
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=1410">23:30</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGJ0W8s1ka0&t=2600">43:20</a>
Jesus I don’t think I’ve ever texted 8 different people in a single day. Maybe I’ve sent 8 text messages in a single day
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